Love isn’t failing you.

The language you were given is.

Meet The New Love Languages — a revolutionary approach to love that uses your Human Design Love Gates to unlock the way you are designed to love and be loved.

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The New Love Languages

Why the Love You Were Taught Keeps Failing - and the Energetic Language That Finally Works

For decades, we’ve been taught to fix our love lives with communication tips, attachment styles, and the 5 Love Languages.

Helpful? Yes. Complete? No.

Those tools focus on behavior.

The New Love Languages focuses on frequency — the energetic blueprint underneath your patterns.

This book gives you:

• The 10 Human Design Love Gates that govern how you give and receive love

• The shadow patterns that keep you in repetition

• The gift frequencies that create effortless resonance

• Discernment tools to choose partners and build relationships by design, not default

This isn’t about learning how to love “better.”

It’s about remembering who you are when you love — and aligning your relationships to that.

Book Features

What you will learn with this book

New Framework for Love (The Love Gates)

Learn the 10 energetic Love Gates that govern attraction, attachment, and partnership — revealing how you’re designed to love, not how you were conditioned to perform.

Turn Shadow Patterns into Love Portals

Understand why the same behaviors can either repel or magnetize love — and how to consciously shift your frequency from unconscious patterns into aligned expression.

Included: Personalized Love Gates Report

Your report helps you identify your active Love Gates and the specific themes shaping your relationship patterns, attractions, and blind spots.

Guided Workbook for Real Integration

The workbook isn’t busywork. It’s a reflective guide designed to help you embody what you’re learning, not just understand it intellectually.

Discernment Tools for Dating and Relationships

Learn how to recognize alignment early, make grounded choices, and stop investing in chemistry that doesn’t lead to safety or longevity.

Frequency-Based Approach to Attraction

Move beyond manifestation techniques and surface-level advice into understanding what your energy is actually broadcasting — and how to recalibrate it.

Support for Singles & Couples

Whether you’re dating, partnered, or in transition, the tools inside this experience help you understand the energetic dynamics shaping connection.

Pattern Recognition Without Self-Blame

The book and report together help you see your past relationships clearly, not as failures, but as feedback pointing you toward alignment.

Introduction

You’ve done the work.

Therapy. Healing. Conscious dating.

You understand attachment. You know your boundaries. You can communicate clearly.

And yet…

You keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners.

Chemistry is instant, but alignment never stays.

You feel chosen at first, then slowly invisible — and you’re tired of being the one who knows better but still ends up hurt.

Here’s the truth most relationship advice won’t say out loud:

Awareness alone doesn’t change attraction. Frequency does.

We were given a behavioral language for love.

What we actually need is an energetic one.

The Five Love Languages taught us how to show love.

They never explained why you love the way you do,

why the same patterns repeat,

or why doing everything “right” still doesn’t create safety or longevity.

Because love isn’t just expressed through behavior.

It’s transmitted through frequency —

and frequency can’t be faked, forced, or performed.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THE BOOK

Inside The New Love Languages, you’ll discover:

✅ The 10 Love Gates and how they govern attraction

✅ The shadow patterns keeping you stuck in repetition

✅ The gift frequency that creates effortless resonance

✅ How to stop earning love and start receiving it

✅ Why some relationships feel draining — and others feel safe

How to date, choose, and partner from alignment.

This book doesn’t help you find “the one.”

It helps you become aligned enough to be met.

WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR

This book is for you if (single or couple):

✅ You’re successful, self-aware, and emotionally intelligent

✅You’re done shrinking, over-giving, or leading in love

✅ You want partnership that supports your purpose

✅ You’re no longer interested in chemistry without consciousness

✅ You’re ready for love that feels calm, clear, and sovereign

This is not beginner dating advice.

This is relationship architecture.

FAQS

How is this different from the Five Love Languages or attachment theory?

The Five Love Languages explain how love is expressed.
Attachment theory explains how we bond.

This book reveals something deeper:

The energetic frequency you broadcast when you love.

The New Love Languages don’t just describe behavior — they explain why the same patterns keep repeating, even when you’re self-aware and doing “everything right.”

This is not a communication tool.
It’s a relationship architecture.

Is this book for singles only, or also for people in relationships?

Both.

If you’re single, this book will radically change who you’re attracted to and why.

If you’re partnered, it will help you understand the energetic dynamics beneath your connection — where love flows naturally and where it’s being distorted.

This work isn’t about status.
It’s about alignment.

What do I receive when I purchase the book?

You also receive exclusive access to the Love Language Report and the Singles & Couples 90 - Day Transformation Workbook; designed to help you integrate what you’re reading in real time.

The report gives you personalized clarity around your Love Gates and energetic patterns.

The workbook serves as a guided pathway, helping you reflect, recognize, and apply the insights to your own relationships and dating experiences.

This isn’t extra content for the sake of more.

It’s support for embodiment.

The book reveals the language.

The report and workbook help you live it.

Together, they create a grounded, self-led experience — so you’re not just understanding the work intellectually, but actually using it as a guide in your love life.

How is this different from the 5 Love Languages?

The 5 Love Languages describe behavior. The 10 Love Gates describe frequency. Love Languages tell you what to do; Love Gates reveal who you are by design when you love. This book helps you work at the energetic root so the behaviors actually stick.

MEET THE AUTHOR

Joan Nwosu is a relationship strategist, Human Design guide, and thought leader in conscious love and energetic alignment. Known for her ability to translate complex emotional and relational patterns into clear, grounded frameworks, she helps high-achieving women stop performing for love and start attracting aligned partnership by design.

Through her lived experience, proprietary systems, and deep work with Human Design, Joan has pioneered a new paradigm of love rooted in frequency, self-trust, and discernment. Her work bridges the spiritual and the practical — offering clarity without performance, depth without overwhelm, and truth without illusion.

The New Love Languages is a culmination of her lived wisdom, professional practice, and commitment to rewriting how modern women experience love.